LAKE PARK ELEMENTARY SCHOOL
Teacher: Ms. Leslie Musgrove
Teacher not doing her job
Teacher Complaint About: Lake Park Elementary School - Ms. Leslie Musgrove
Author: Candice Harris
Grade: K
Occur date: Nov 07 2011
Post date: Nov 09 2011, 06:25:58 AM
Teacher Complaint: Ms. Leslie Musgrove - Lake Park Elementary School
I have a very long and detailed list of complaints,not just with the teacher but everyone at the school that is helping this teacher ruin my son and other children's lives as well.
My son's five years old he's a twin, and he's short for his age, and got the girl genetics I guess but had no health issues what so ever other than a compulsive eating disorder with a few other mental issues. I haven't gotten him a therapist yet but my concerns lead me to do research on his issues and I found alot of information out on him, so the day he started school he became the center of everyone's attention being shy at that time and small, eating like a starved child which he has done since not long after birth along with his out bursts and cries when other people eat around him or basically have anything he doesn't have he screams he's got a temper and he expects to have anything anyone else has that's his personality and he also conforms to whatever situation he's in to get his way whatever he can do to make someone do what he wants he will do and he lies to get things too. I wasn't nervous about school, I had confidence that once I laid everything out on the table and prepared them for the challenges they would have this year with him and with help at home and school as well that maybe we could fix these things without needing a therapist to do it for us. We worked out a plan to have him eat at home before school so that I could make sure he ate properly and he's got a problem not chewing he will swallow his meal whole so if I sit with him he will chew it all, that at least two of his meals a day didn't go to waste, cause chewing plays the biggest part in nutrition in order your nutrients to distribute properly you can't just swallow everything and he won't get the nutrition he needs, and that when he does this he swells up in his tummy walks like a duck looks like he can't breathe, it's very bad for his health and that he will consume more food than he actually needs so they need to make sure he doesn't over eat as well, my husband has digestive problems and I don't want my child to as well. So I explained that to them, and was promised he'd not eat breakfast anymore at school. That they'd make sure he didn't over do it on food either and I also covered his issues about lying to get his way and how he will act up to make them give into him, they said they'd make sure they would do as I said. Weeks went by and my son kept coming home swollen and throwing up every couple days no stomach virus just over eating at school, my husband called them they denied it, my children kept telling me that he was eating two breakfasts that he lied and told them I wasn't feeding him at home so my daughter that's also in his class tells me she would give him more than everyone ekse because he's small. We didn't know what to do every time we called the teacher wouldn't get on the phone or call us back, she would lie and say the things my daughter saw him do at school wasn't true, basically all my children are liars, etc. Come to find out that she was questioning him about me instead of asking me things as I always believed a teacher should do, and trying to compile a case on me for yhe social worker to get my kids taken from me. The whole school was in on it, noone talked to us about anything and suddenly two people without my permission show up at school questioning my children. DEFACS shows up at my housse with a list of crazy accusations this lady made on me because my son lied to her about me feeding him everyday and God knows what else. I went to her for support with his problems and she judged me the parent acting as if there's never been a single kid born with issues, they labeled me the problem and him a victim after all we talked about, they have hurt my family and gone against my wishes, lied about my child because he told them not to tell on him, hindered my progress that I have taken pride in working with him on and actually started helping him do right at home and turned him against me and have treated him so much like a baby that he has been going to the bathroom in his clothes now after I potty trained him years ago and his attitude towards us has gotten worse, he screams at everyone when I had broke him from that before school and throws things at my other children if they don't give him what he asks for,he feels like he doesn't have to listen to us or have rules that he acts as if he's better than the other kids he deserves more. This all happened recently since everytime I spank him or don't give into him he tells his teacher and they act like I am the villain, he gets rewarded and babied for his tantrums candy when he cries at school or on the bus, when he lies about me they give him toys or snacks, everything a child with his disorder wants. And despite my attempts to have communication with the principals they refuse to talk to me because they have decided amongst themselves that I am a bad mother just because my child is small and has problems, they have stripped my pride, stripped me of my parental rights, and ashe has taken it on her own to act as if she and her student teachers are his mother. So now he's found out how to work the school is by talking bad about us and they'll call somebody on us if he doesn't get his way now. They haven't taken him out of her class even though I have made several requests, I told them how I feel about her and she still does what she wants my child has no rules or guidance there at this school. DEFACS closed my case because they see there's no abuse none of the alligations were true, but they beto stop this puilieve what they want, so a week after my case is closed what does she do again, called on me again. What can I do to stop this picking on me, this lady has no life, she sits back paying attention to one child in her room just because I don't like her and I am going to keep going through this hell as long as he's there. They make him think I am bad because I get onto him and spank him when he does bad, they covered up him pooping his pants the other day even when I got to school and saw them with his clothing in the principal's hand they didn't tell me because he said don't mama or daddy will spank me. Five year olds have accidents once in a while, but he's doing it every single day since he was placed in her pre-k class, he's developing slower than ever, these people should teach these children to respect and love their parents, and teach my children moral values instead of what they are doing. He stays bloated and I am the one left cleaning up the throw up because she thinks I don't feed my kids, because she formed her bad opinion of me my child is being damaged, not by me as she tries to make it look but by her listening to a five year old that right now until I get him help thinks of himself and noone else. I can't get her to help us with this nor the school, they are determined to make me look bad,I am going to talk to a lawyer in a week or so, I think she's abusing my child, when time comes to get him help she should pay the therapist and the doctor that has to check his digestive tract to make sure he's not ruptured anything by over eating without chewing. And I also want ya'll to know, I complained that she was watching my child using the bathroom seeing him nude everyday and that he's more than capable of going to the potty without a grown up and she still does it everyday, that's molestation in a way since I told her to stop and she hasn't. The bottom line is they won't look past him being little, therefore he won't be taught anything a child his age should be being taught, he's not a baby and they insist on treating him like one, and a child that has his issues eats it up and demands it at all times and he's going to grow up being taught that he's allowed to do or say anything to get his way, lie and steal, and he believes he should be treated better than anyone else all because of this teacher that Lowndes county should be ashamed to have as an employee that is teaching our children to go against their parents because she does, she's judgemental and stubborn, refuses to obey our wishes and in my opinion has made him worse, I didn't ask for this when I had my babies I never thought there would be so much disregard for concerns and so many problems, us parents had our children not because we had to, because we wanted them, for us to raise and teach them how to be an adult and be able to be proud of what we accomplished, all I have so far is a long list of cases closed to prove to myself I am a good Mom, because Lake Park Elementary is making me feel otherwise. Is it just me, or is this unfair, I did a good job keeping my son healthy despite the school's belief and he's been happy and showed he loves me before all this began, now I don't even know my child, they have taken everything away from me and my husband because there opinions are all that matter, be careful anyone out here that's got a child with problems, this school will mess them up worst and they don't care about your thoughts and your future they think they know everything and they won't even know you but a few minutes and decide whether they are gonna help or make your life hell, especially this teacher, she shouldn't even have a teaching degree. And I may have to up and move out of my home of three years now just becasue of their unwillingness to cooperate and get my child a more suitable teacher one that doesn't want my child for herself or want my child to be taken from a stable and good home for no reason other than the fact that I don't like her at all and I am majorly appalled by her teaching skills if that's what it's called,she needs to look after her own life and leave her students alone and these people shouldn't sleep at night thinking maybe they are wrong and mr and mrs harris are telling the truth, I should not have to move to get my son a proper education, and I hope after the lawyer that no parent out here will ever go through this and that mine and your tax dollars quit paying this woman's salary. I am glad you have this website maybe somebody out there will relate and understand and possibly know how to fix this before I spend all this money for help.
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AaronOther
Nov 10 2011, 10:52:31 PM
No credible evidence in medical literature supports the continued use of corporal punishment; spanking is less effective than time out or removal of privileges for decreasing undesired behavior in children. Discipline, however, is a necessary component for child rearing, and appropriate discipline aims for limit setting, teaching right from wrong, assisting in decision making, and helping the child develop a sense of self-control.
When physical force is used as a discipline technique (as in corporal punishment), the concern arises that if the misconduct continues even after corporal punishment is applied, the caregiver then may become angry and frustrated and reapply the physical force. As the physical force is reapplied while the caregiver is becoming increasingly angry, the potential emerges for the caregiver to lose control and injure the child. Regardless of whether injuring the child was the intended outcome of the corporal punishment, the end result experienced by the injured child is that he or she has been hurt.
Caregivers who use corporal punishment are often angry, irritable, depressed, fatigued, and stressed. They apply the punishment at a time that they "have lost it," and caregivers frequently express remorse and agitation while punishing their children. To avoid this risk of harming the child and in order to model nonviolent behavior for children, many health care professionals advocate child discipline via consistent, nonphysical force based approaches such as time out, loss of privileges, expressions of parental disappointment, and grounding.
BrooksTeacher In Complaint
Nov 14 2011, 08:25:06 PM
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